The She’s Such A Lesbian Podcast

Black Pride, Black Joy & Black Power

In this episode of She’s Such a Lesbian Podcast, Host Dyse is joined by Regina Huggins for a powerful and affirming conversation centered on Black identity, healing, and self-determination.
Together, they explore what Black pride really means beyond survival, how Black joy shows up as a daily practice, and why Black power is rooted in autonomy, rest, and choosing yourself. From unlearning survival mode to embracing softness, community, and truth, this episode creates space for reflection, growth, and celebration.
This conversation is for anyone navigating Blackness with intention—honoring where you’ve been while claiming where you’re going.
✨ Pride. Joy. Power.

“Stud Pride, Soft Hearts & Side-Eyes”

Today’s episode is called “Stud Pride, Soft Hearts & Side-Eyes”—and it’s a love letter to masc-presenting lesbians who are constantly misunderstood.
We talk about what stud pride really means beyond the stereotypes, the softness that lives beneath masc energy, and the side-eyes that double as boundaries. From being labeled intimidating to navigating love, vulnerability, and community expectations, this episode breaks down the emotional depth, strength, and intentionality of studs who love hard and move with purpose.
If you’ve ever been told you don’t seem nice, felt pressure to be the strong one, or learned to protect your peace with silence and a look—this one’s for you.
✨ Stud pride. Emotional depth. Boundaries with style.
 
 

From Survival To Self Made

For a long time, survival was the goal. Getting through the day. Holding it together. Doing what had to be done.But what happens when survival isn’t the finish line anymore?
In this episode of She’s Such a Lesbian, we talk about the shift from living in survival mode to intentionally building a life that actually feels like yours. We unpack growth that isn’t pretty, healing that doesn’t happen on a timeline, and the quiet confidence that comes from choosing yourself after years of doing what you had to do.
This episode is for anyone who grew up fast, carried too much, and is now learning how to live—not just survive.
✨ Growth. Healing. Self-made energy.

Bold Women, Happy Endings and Lesbian Joy

Edale Lane is a award winning Amazon Best Selling Author of sapphic books and stories, publishing under her Past and Prologue Press Label since 2019. Her goal is to entertain and inspire her audience with her page-turning mysteries and immersive historical fiction (often with a fantasy flair) featuring bold and loving characters. No matter the dangers, you can expect a happy ending. (Well, maybe not for the foiled criminals.) Having to embarked on variety of careers, including school teacher, church music minister, Home Depot Associate and a tuck driver author Edale Lane has many experiences to draw from. She also holds a master's degree in history. When not writing, this Chilliwack, B.C. resident who lives with her long time partner, now battling cancer can be found playing the French horn, gaming, enjoying nature, or spoiling her Havanese dog. 

Mental Health, Teen Motherhood & Coming Out

Welcome back to She’s Such a Lesbian, the podcast where we unpack queer identity, messy timelines, and the very gay art of surviving your twenties.
Today’s episode is personal.Not in a trauma-dump way—but in a “wow, that shaped me more than I realized” way.
We’re talking about:
What mental health looks like when you’re still a kid raising a kid
How teen motherhood collides with identity and autonomy
And what it’s like to come out when your life already feels like it’s under a microscope

Writing Without Permission

I’m joined by K’Anne Meinel, a powerhouse author who never asked for approval—and never needed it. From spending two weeks but did not publish it until 8 years later which was her very first novel, SHIPS, to building her own publishing house, to creating awards that celebrate lesbian literature, K’Anne’s journey is a masterclass in patience, independence, and bold storytelling.
We get into what it really means to choose appetite over approval, why some stories refuse neat endings, and how humor, sarcasm, and double meanings can open readers up before hitting them right in the feelings. K’Anne shares how short stories shaped her longer works, why she started Shadoe Publishing to remove barriers for queer writers, and what inspired the creation of the Lesfic Bard Awards.
This episode is for writers, creatives, and anyone who’s ever wondered what might happen if they stopped following the rules and started trusting themselves instead.
So grab your coffee, tea, or wine, get comfortable, and press play.Because the stories that stick?

Exes… Do We Stay Friends or Absolutely Not?

From a Stud’s point of view, Dyse takes the solo mic and breaks down one of the most controversial relationship questions: can exes really stay friends—or is that a hard no?
Speaking as a happily married stud of 2 years married to her wife and co-host Katz), Dyse delivers a raw, funny, and sarcastic take on boundaries, emotional access, and the lies we tell ourselves in the name of “maturity.”

Why We Chase the Unready

If you’ve ever heard “I’m not ready for a relationship” and replied with “that’s okay, I can wait” — this episode is about you.Dyse spends this episode lovingly roasting studs (including herself) for chasing emotionally unavailable lesbians like it’s a competitive sport. We’re talking fixer-upper romances, potential-based relationships, and doing Olympic-level emotional labor for people who “just need time.”Expect: Stud-on-stud accountability (no shame, just jokes and growth) Unready lesbians being described accurately but respectfullyThe phrase “she’s different with me” being exposed for what it really is. A breakdown of how patience turned into self-erasureLaughs, long pauses, dramatic realizations, and at least one “oh wow… I hate how true that is” moment This is not a how-to episode.This is a “why did I stay so long?” episode. Come for the humor.Stay for the clarity. Leave with the understanding that peace is better than potential and love should not feel like a waiting room.Headphones recommended. Group chat apologies optional.

Debunking New Year’s Resolutions & Replacing Them With Self‑Affirmation Through Action

In this episode of She’s Such a Lesbian, host Dyse breaks down the history and psychology behind New Year’s resolutions and explains why they rarely lead to lasting change. Instead of chasing unrealistic goals or reinventing ourselves every January, Dyse introduces a grounded 2026 approach: self‑affirmation through action. Listeners learn how identity‑based habits, small consistent steps, and compassionate self‑alignment create real, sustainable growth. This episode blends education, structure, and queer‑centered insight to help you step into the new year with clarity and intention.
 

From the Cellblock to Servanthood

In this powerful episode of She’s Such a Lesbian, host Dyse sits down with Caress Loftin for a raw and transformative conversation titled “From the Cellblock to Servanthood.”
Caress shares her lived experience navigating incarceration, identity, faith, and queerness—unpacking how survival shaped her and how purpose ultimately called her into a life of service. With honesty and reflection, she speaks on accountability, healing, and redefining freedom beyond confinement.
This episode is about resilience, redemption, and the complexity of becoming who you are meant to be—especially when the world only knows your past.
🎙️ Real stories. Real growth. Real truth.🎧 Tune in and listen with an open heart.